Something deep within you already knows the way back

I support people ready to stop managing their inner life from a distance - and start feeling it again. Through medicine-assisted therapeutic journeys, NARM-informed one-to-one coaching, & men's initiatory retreats, this work goes to the roots.

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MY APPROACH

Most people who arrive here have done the work of understanding themselves. They know their patterns. They can name their wounds. What's still missing is something more physical, more immediate - the felt sense of being alive in their own body, and what it means to want things again.

That's where I work.

I'm a NARM-informed practitioner: an approach originally developed for complex trauma that looks beneath symptoms to the ways we've learned to survive by disconnecting from our own needs. Alongside that, I bring over a decade of training in shamanic and somatic practices. The two fit together naturally: both are less interested in the story you tell about yourself than in what's actually happening underneath it.

The question running through all my work is a simple one: what would it feel like to be more fully yourself?

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How we work together

A first conversation: We start with a free 30-minute call - no commitment, just a chance to talk about where you are and whether this work feels like the right fit. I take that seriously. Not everything I offer is right for everyone, and not always at the right time.

Getting to know you: If we decide to move forward, you'll fill in an intake form. It asks real questions - about significant life events, current patterns, and what you're actually hoping for. It's worth taking your time with.

The work itself: Whether in retreat, in one-to-one sessions, or both, the approach is the same: unhurried, curious, and grounded in what's showing up for you right now. Change at this level tends to emerge gradually and sustainably - sometimes it becomes fully visible only months after the work begins, and it’s deeply moving.

Between sessions: Coaching clients receive detailed written summaries after each session and WhatsApp support in between. Retreat participants have access to an online integration call after the experience.

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Three Pathways to Healing

  • Medicine-Assisted Therapeutic Retreats

    Four or five days, residential. Using carefully curated music as the primary therapeutic vehicle, participants enter deep non-ordinary states that allow the body and psyche to process what talking alone rarely reaches. I facilitate these retreats alongside a trusted co-facilitator, combining shamanic and therapeutic approaches in a held, consent-centred container.

    UK-based, with dates throughout the year.

    £1,250–£1,750.

  • One-to-One Coaching

    Twelve sessions of NARM-informed online coaching, designed to be worked alongside a retreat or as a standalone journey.

    Each session goes where it needs to go - exploring the patterns that keep you at arm's length from your own life, and building something more embodied in their place.

    Includes session summaries and WhatsApp support between sessions.

    £1,650.

  • Emergence Brotherhood

    Seven-day initiatory trainings for men in the UK, Spain, and North America, with online offerings also available.

    Co-facilitated with Robbie Griffin, this is immersive work with the full range — shadow, sexuality, power, grief, brotherhood.

    For men who are done describing the problem and ready to meet it in their bodies.


    £1,450+.

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Upcoming Retreats

Medicine-assisted Therapy Retreat

Near Lisbon, Portugal
22-26th April 2026
£1500 - one space left
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Emergence Brotherhood: The Initiation

Orgiva, Spain
3rd-9th May 2026
€1650 until 31st March 2026
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Shamanic Breathwork Retreat with Elaine Yonge - support facilitating

Orgiva, Spain
18th-24th May 2026
€1820
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Medicine-assisted Therapy Retreat

UK
11th-14th June 2026
£1250 - one space left
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Emergence Brotherhood: The Initiation

UK
18th-24th September 2026
£1450
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Medicine-assisted Therapy Retreat

UK
18th-22nd November 2026
£1500
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  • "Graham offers a place where you can bring yourself and be truly seen and embraced. There are so many 'coaches' out there, but the amount of wisdom, integrity, respect and love Graham brings to his sessions is something I have never experienced before. Even after our first session, he helped me shift things I could not before."

    Rachael L.

  • "Graham is hands down one of the most transformative human beings I have worked with. Together we addressed patterns that have been there for my whole life and that no one have been able to see through. With Graham, for the first time, there was an opening to something new, to deep healing, a doorway to wholeness."

    Pontus L.

  • "The gold I take with me is strongly felt on all levels from heart to body and mind with a renewed sense of curiosity, devotion, wonder and awe. I was able to find new openings and create different pathways of holding myself through profound emotional distress."

    Kayla

  • "Working with Graham opened up a neutral space within where I can hear myself clearly, and feel empowered. After the session when we talked about my relationship with my mom, I had a strong emotional release and it was beautiful."

    Tankut A.

  • "Graham knows what he is doing as you can feel in every encounter. Even after our first session he helped me shift things I could not before. I am deeply grateful for having sessions with Graham. I find a playful sweet spot that is light and deep at the same time."

    Sarah M.P.

  • "I highly recommend Graham as brilliantly equipped loving human being, cosmic guide and wise leader from a pure heart for everyone who is willing to step into self-responsibility. Working with Graham was a pleasure and a milestone on the path reaching new levels of inner peace, sensuality and playfulness in everyday life."

    Christine B.

  • "Working with Graham is always eye opening. He is highly perceptive, and guides me gently and compassionately to meet my edges. I always feel so safe and held, so meeting those edges becomes a possibility for me. Every session I come away with a nugget of gold which stays with me and helps me to integrate what we have worked on."

    Fiona M.

About me

I came to this work the long way round.

I trained as a hypnotherapist to find my voice. I learned reiki to feel my energy. I became a sexological bodyworker to reconnect with pleasure. I co-stewarded a men's work movement to share my love with men. I trained as a psychedelic guide to find my way home. I trained as a NARM practitioner to deepen my humanity.

Having walked this path myself, I understand the courage it takes to face these patterns - and what becomes possible when you do.

Much love, Graham x